Kit

Keep in Touch

The people you meant to write to, before another season passes.

The friendships that matter don't end — they drift. The first sweep reads back through a year of your email and calendar and rebuilds the book: everyone you've actually been in touch with, and when you last were. Then you say, for each person worth keeping, how often you'd like to be in touch — monthly, a season, or just don't lose them — and from then on the board shows who is drifting past the cadence you chose, furthest over first, with two names a week to pick up. Say "had coffee with Maya" in passing and it lands on the right row; ask Juniper what you were last talking to Sam about before you call. Name the circles your people belong to and the board shows where the drift is; keep what you said you would do together and the introductions you owe, and ideas start from your own words. Nothing here contacts anyone and nothing judges a friendship; ask for a message, a card or an introduction and Juniper drafts it for you to send — it notices the drift before you would, and leaves the sending to you.

Try it free

1 agent, 1 routine, 1 dashboard, 3 datasets, 3 skills. Installing offers the first sweep on the same screen — connect, run it, and everything can be retimed or paused after.

PeopleExample data
Drifting — furthest over firstagainst the cadence you chose

Priya — old colleague

monthly · last spoke 67 days ago · 37 days over

Sam — friend from the running club

each season · last spoke 140 days ago · 49 days over

Jordan — former flatmate

just don't lose them · 45 days past a year

Theo — friend from the choir

twice a year · 18 days over
How you were last in toucheveryone on the book
11
  • Email4
  • In person3
  • Message2
  • Video1
  • Call1

people on the book · each counted once, by the way you last spoke

Touches, month by monthconversations and meetings
12

a count of times you were in touch, never how it went

JanSep
The bookwho they are to you, and when you last spoke
Priyaold colleague · monthly67 days ago
Samfriend from the running club · each season140 days ago
Alexuniversity friend · monthly5 days ago
Mayaneighbour · every couple of months30 days ago

The crew

Juniper

Keeps the people you'd like to stay close to from drifting — and never contacts anyone.

Warm, evergreen, unhurried; notices without judging, and never picks up the phone for you.

What else it installs

People bookdataset

One row per person you'd like to stay close to — who they are to you, how often you meant to be in touch, and when you last were.

Touch logdataset

Every time you were in touch — who, when, by what channel, and what about.

Introductionsdataset

Who you said you would introduce to whom, and why — kept until it is done.

People captureskill

"Had coffee with Maya" — one sentence, and the book knows you spoke.

Catch-up prepskill

"What was I last talking to Sam about?" — the thread, before you pick up the phone.

Circles, plans and introductionsskill

"Sam's in my running club", "I'd like to try the climbing wall with Sam", "I said I'd introduce Theo to Priya" — said once, kept until it is done.

Peopledashboard

Who is drifting past the cadence you chose, two names for the week, and the book itself.

Touch sweeproutine

Mondays — reads what arrived since last week, moves last-contact forward, and names at most two people to pick up.

Runs mondays · 8am

How it works

The mechanics of this kit, plainly — what runs and when, where the data lands, and what you look at.

  • Touch sweep runs mondays · 8am and keeps the People dashboard fresh. Mondays — reads what arrived since last week, moves last-contact forward, and names at most two people to pick up.
  • What is captured lands in the People book dataset, which lives at Data/People Book in your vault — yours to open, search, and edit like any other file.
  • What is captured lands in the Touch log dataset, which lives at Data/Touch Log in your vault — yours to open, search, and edit like any other file.
  • What is captured lands in the Introductions dataset, which lives at Data/Introductions in your vault — yours to open, search, and edit like any other file.
  • The People dashboard reads from the dataset and shows, at a glance: drifting — furthest over first · this week's two · how you were last in touch · on the book · recent touches · circles — and who is drifting · introductions you owe · touches, month by month · the book · how this board works.

The wiring, in one breath: People capture writes to People book · Touch sweep writes to People book · People capture writes to Touch log · Touch sweep writes to Touch log · People book shown by People · Touch log shown by People · People kept fresh by Touch sweep · Touch sweep run by Juniper · Juniper holds People capture · Juniper holds Catch-up prep · Circles, plans and introductions writes to People book · Circles, plans and introductions writes to Introductions · Introductions shown by People · Juniper holds Circles, plans and introductions.

Getting the most from it

A kit earns its place when it changes what you look at and what you say, not when it is installed. This is the rhythm that makes it pay.

  • Read Drifting on Monday morning, after the Touch sweep has been through the week. The order is furthest past your own cadence first, so the top of the list is the honest signal — and a name you are happy to see there is a cadence worth changing, not a failing.
  • Take This week's two as exactly that — two names and a line of what you last talked about. Pick up the phone, or don't; ask Juniper for a message and it writes the draft for you to send; it never sends one and never asks whether you did.
  • Say a catch-up the way you'd say it to whoever is in the room — "had coffee with Maya", "finally spoke to Sam" — and People capture moves last-contact forward. That is how the messaging apps and the calls the sweep cannot see get onto the book.
  • Before you call someone, ask for the thread: "what was I last talking to Priya about?" Catch-up prep says it back from the touch log and from what you have told Juniper — when, how, what about, anything either of you said you'd do.
  • Set the cadence to what you actually mean, not what you wish. "Just don't lose them" is a real answer — a year — and it keeps someone off the drifting list until they are truly drifting.
  • When a name that shouldn't be there turns up, say so and it is set aside, never deleted; tell Juniper never to suggest them and the sweep won't. That is the correction that keeps the board yours.
  • Name the circles your people belong to as they come up — "Sam's in my running club", "put Priya and Jordan in the university crowd" — and Circles on the board shows, after Monday's sweep, how many are in each and how many of them are drifting. A person can be in several, and a circle you never name is never made up for you.
  • Keep what you said you would do together on the person's row: "I'd like to try the climbing wall with Sam". Ask "what could Sam and I do?" and Juniper starts from your own list, your notes on Sam and what you last did together, and adds ideas of its own, marked as its own, if you want more. With nothing there it says so, and a line you give goes on the list until you say it is done.
  • Say who you promised to introduce to whom, and why, and it waits on Introductions you owe until you say it is made — or tick it on the board. Juniper keeps that it is owed; ask and it drafts the introduction for you to send, whoever it is between.

Make it yours

Nothing here is fixed. The pieces are ordinary agents, routines, datasets and dashboards, so anything you know about shaping those applies. Retire whatever earns nothing.

Things people usually change first

Say any of these in chat, or edit them on the kit’s page in the app.

  • What you call each person — the name on the book is the word Juniper uses back.
  • How often you meant to be in touch, per person — change a cadence by saying so, or leave it blank; a blank is never nudged.
  • When the Touch sweep runs, or pausing it and keeping the book by hand.
  • Who never belongs on the book — a kind of person, a sender, a channel — as a standing preference the sweep respects.
  • The book itself is yours to edit: an email address the sweep should match on, a note, someone set aside brought back.
  • The circles you name — the words are yours, and taking someone out of one is a sentence.
  • The things you keep to do together and the introductions you owe — say one is done, or no longer wanted, and it comes off.

Your first run

Installing starts a short setup conversation — not a form. Answer roughly, correct later.

  1. Installing ends at the first sweep's own screen, where the email and calendar grants are asked for — that is the whole pitch, so the ask sits in front, where it makes sense. The screen connects your email; connect your calendar on the Connectors screen first if you want the sweep to read it. Start it and Juniper reads back through a year of your email and calendar for one fact only: who you were actually in touch with, and when. Every person you had a real two-way conversation or a meeting with goes on the book with the last time you spoke; nothing is read for what it said, nothing is written back, and nobody is contacted. It is a real run and uses credits like any other.
  2. When that first sweep finishes, Juniper leaves one card with what it found — how many people, across how many conversations and meetings — and an invitation to go through them: who shouldn't be on the book at all (set aside, never deleted), and for each person who should, how often you'd like to be in touch — monthly, every couple of months, each season, twice a year, or just don't lose them. That is also where you say who each person is to you, in your own words, and name anyone the sweep couldn't have seen — reached by phone, by a messaging app, in person. The sweep cannot know how often you meant to be in touch with anyone, so nobody shows as drifting until you have said.
  3. Whenever Juniper asks you for something, it starts from what 1Presence already knows, in what you have told it and any list of people in your vault, offers what it finds for a yes, and asks only for the gaps.
  4. Skip the sweep and the book still works by hand: Juniper takes the people you can think of one at a time — who they are to you, roughly when you last spoke and how, how often you'd like to — and nothing in that conversation touches your email. The Touch sweep waits on your Routines screen until you choose to run it.
  5. Whatever is still blank waits on the Kit page with a way back to Juniper, and Juniper offers it once the next time you talk. Tell it a part does not apply to you, or that you have finished setting up, and it stops asking.
  6. After that the sweep runs every Monday at eight, scans only what is new since the last one, moves last-contact forward from the evidence, redraws the board, and leaves at most one short card a week — two names with a line of context each — or nothing, when nobody is drifting.

Watch the first pass, then tell it what you would have done differently — that correction teaches it more than any setup could.

The essentials

Learning, preferences and run costs work the same in every kit — so they are covered once, in the Kits guide.

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Put the Keep in Touch kit to work.

Install it, run it once against something that already happened, and see whether what comes back sounds like you.

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Everything it installs can be retimed, paused, or removed.

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